by Michael Ceely, LMFT  (Reprinted from CeelyCounseling.com)

Being a single dad is a topic not often addressed. This film gives a voice to all the men out there fulfilling this challenging role.

In my therapy practice, I encounter men dealing with the challenges of expressing emotions, especially during significant life transitions like divorce or single parenthood. Societal norms have long dictated that men should be stoic, often leading to suppressed feelings and unaddressed emotional wounds.

Enter Guys Night, an upcoming independent film that gets to the heart of these issues. Based on the true story of filmmaker Niko Vitacco, the narrative follows Anthony, a single father in 1980s Illinois, striving to connect with his three sons after their mother leaves. Through weekly "Guys Nights" filled with VHS movies and snacks, Anthony attempts to bridge the emotional gap with his sons, particularly with his middle son, Dominic.

What sets Guys Night apart is its raw portrayal of a father's struggle to balance strength with vulnerability. It challenges the traditional notions of masculinity, showcasing that true strength lies in emotional honesty and connection.

The film's commitment to authenticity is evident in its production choices. Scenes were shot on a special camera to create a nostalgic 35mm aesthetic, and set against the backdrop of Hometown, Illinois (yes, that’s the actual name of the town). These elements serve not just as a setting but as a character, reflecting the era's cultural nuances and the protagonist's internal battles.

Beyond its cinematic merits, Guys Night aims to be a catalyst for conversations around men's mental health, fatherhood, and the importance of emotional expression. It's a story that resonates with many of the themes I see in my therapy sessions, emphasizing that seeking help and expressing emotions are signs of strength, not weakness.

Currently, the team behind Guys Night is seeking support to bring this poignant story to life. With fiscal sponsorship through IFA Chicago, contributions are tax-deductible, aiding in their goal to commence production in Fall 2025. For those interested in supporting a project that aligns with the mission of promoting men's emotional well-being, consider donating here.

In a world where men's emotional narratives are often overlooked, Guys Night offers a much-needed spotlight, reminding us all of the power of vulnerability and connection.

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